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Just a quick out of the box thought

Considering all the facts that are up in the air....

I think I have done an great job!
I thank myself and my inspiration my mother ( R.i.P mama)
With all my heart I will try to be strong this year
your birthday is in two days (5-27-2010)
I will miss celebrating with you but I know you are here in spirit.
I just want to wish you a HAPPY BIRTHDAY early!!!!!

Congrats to all

So I just would like to thank all the teachers for a successful accomplishment for the 2009-2010 year.
My kids are so happy its the last day of school.
I give a shout out to all.

1> Tank --- congrats you passed with high achievers award and your first year in high school is coming up with all my heart I love you.
2> Nene --- you have done all you can and I am thankful for that. This is ya last year in elementary school next year it will be middle school so don't be scared just be prepared.
3> Josh --- WoW! Man you got labeled as artistic but you have came along so far (tear) today it's second grade next year it's fourth. I still cant believe you skipping a grade I am so so proud of you .
4> Stinker --- Just a year ago I was wishing you would be born because I was miserable being pregnant. Now your here and so amazing , I so love you with all my heart . Your moving so fast. You ran before you walked. Now your walking and getting into everything ,but in a few more years you will be headed off with ya sister and brothers going to school.

And I'll be children free




Love all my kids!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Getting back on track with my blogs

OK back to the basics...........

Should the law continue to recognize any difference in legitimate and illegitimate children?

I do think that there is an difference that should be acknowledged in the bases of the child being legitimate than the child being considered a bastard.

See the thoughts of the child being legitimate is basically saying that this child is being claimed and the thoughts of the child being illegitimate is basically saying that the child is a bastard brought on out of wedlock.

Now the only thing that I feel should be continued is the option for the party to legitimate the child. However, when the child is made out of wedlock (which is most of the time) that child should have a right by law to be claimed. Now adults she also be mandated on having to legitimate the child. There's no reason why that child legally shouldn't have both parents on paper in their life's.

There's no reason that the child should have to suffer from the negligence of the parents.

We should also watch how we use certain words because the definition of bastard is not what a lot of people use it for. So once again watch what we say especially around children they are like sponges they soak up everything within 1 minute.

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY
AND R.I.P. TO MY MOTHER "PATRICIA"
LOVE YA BABES

An true discussion thats in the air

Should child support always be required?
Are there circumstances in which a party should not
be required to pay support?


No; Child support should not always be required.
Because now lets really think how much of that
child support really goes toward the child?
If the parent has received their child support payment
I think that it should go into an account for the child
and if there are expenses for that child then it should
be taken out ,but the rest should be saved for that
child's college or when they grow up.
Now and days adults blow that money on whatever and
they use the words CHILD SUPPORT to their benefit.
They know that the other party don't want to include
the courts if they don't have to. Child support is
like a wife or husband. Meaning that if you don't pay
on time you will have this agony of someone threatening
you, in your ear bugging you, or popping up in your face
harassing you.

I think that if the party has been taking care of the
child and has not had any problems with taking care of
the child and spending time with the child then that
party shouldn't be required to pay child support. Or
if the child is in the home with the other party ,but
they don't have court issued custody ,but they are the one
taking care of the child then they should not have to pay
support ,but with that being said it looks as if I am
living on mars.

Child Custody Opinions

What factors should be used to decide child custody?
Should the wishes of the child be considered?
If so, what would prevent one parent from making the
child promises that are not in the best interests of the
child in order to influence the child's decision?

Now before I begin my post I would like to notify you
all that I am going in on this one blind. Just giving
my own opinion due to me myself going thru a similar
situation with child custody.

A child's custody is a strong and touchy case.
The child's current living situation and the opposed
living situation should be over viewed.The child's
education, the financial's of the current arrangement
opposed to the new one. I do strongly believe that
the child's thoughts should be considered not only
at home or thru the opposed parties ,but also the
child needs to be heard by the court. This is not to
say that the child should be placed up to go against
the parities ,but just to know how the child feels about
the situation. Once again this is in the best interest of
the child.

I see now days that a lot of mothers are mothers just to
say that they had a baby by -----. Or just to say that
they are grown. Now I also think that everyone is not
made to be a mother. (We have always heard mommas baby
and daddy's maybe ,but hey it takes a mature lady to be
a mother and it takes a mature man to be a father.) Next
the lack of responsibility can prevent keeping the
child's promises. Not even that its done intentionally
but that it was not kept. The mind has to be focused
on wanting the best or wanting the all for the child
or children in question.

We as adults can sometimes be bullying. Meaning that
when we give our children that look, that eye, or
that certain tone in our voice they know what time it is.
So we also can be persuasive by feeding children the
information that we wont them to know and to agree with.
Children don't really know a difference depending on the
age range ,but when a child says something before they
lie on an adult they will tell on an adult. So I say
becareful of what we say, how we act, and what our
kids are exposed to because it only takes 1 minute of
information to be consumed into a child's head...


*BEWARE*

(This is coming from the heart of a mother of 4)